ramzan mein marraige nikka karna kesa hai

 ramzan mein marraige nikka karna kesa hai

Jee bilkul, ye ek bohat aham sawal hai. MashaaAllah aap is mahine mein ibaadat ke saath-saath apni zindagi ke ahem faisle bhi soch rahe hain.

Aap ke sawal ka ek hi seedha jawab hai: Ramzan mein shadi (nikah) karna bilkul jaayaz aur durust hai. Is mein koi haraj (problem) nahi hai. 

Yahan tak ke Ummat ki badi marji, maloomati hastiyaan is hawale se kuch yo'n rahnumai farmate hain:

1. Shari'a ki Raushni Mein Hukm

· Koi Pabandi Nahi: Shari'at ne Ramzan ke mahine mein nikah par koi pabandi nahi lagayi. Quran o Hadees mein is tarah ki koi mana'at nahi hai.  Dr. Zakir Naik bhi yahi kehte hain ke is mahine mein shaadi karna Haraam nahi hai .

· Quran ki Daleel: Allah Ta'ala ne Quran-e-Pak mein irshad farmaya: "Roze ki raaton mein apni biwiyon se Mubashrat (direct sex) karna tumharen liye halaal kiya gaya." (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:187) . Is ayat se saaf zahir hai ke iftaar ke baad (raat ke waqt) miya biwi ka ek dosre ke saath hona jaayaz hai. Agar raat ke waqt jaayaz hai, to shaadi ka aqad bhi jaayaz hai.

2. Ahmiyat Ka Pehlu

· Ibaadat ka Mahaul: Ramzan ka mahina sirf khana pine se rukne ka nahi, balki roohaniyat (spirituality) aur Allah ki taraf rujoo' ka mahina hai. Is mahine mein shaadi karke aap apni zindagi ki shuruat hi Allah ki itaat aur ibaadat ke mahol mein kar rahe hain, ye bohat acchi baat hai .

· Gunah se bachao: Agar kisi ko kisi se shadi ki zaroorat hai aur wo is mahine mein bhi gunaah (jaise kisi na-mehram se milna, rishta) mein mubtila ho sakta hai, to us ke liye nikah karna aur bhi zaroori ho jata hai, chahe mahina Ramzan hi kyun na ho.

3. Ek Ahem Masla: Roze Ka Khayal (Ihtiyaat)

Haan, yahan ek bohat ahem baat hai jiska khayal rakhna zaroori hai:

· Roza Tootne ka Khayal: Nikah ke baad agar shadi ki raat ho aur agli subah se roza rakhna hai, to subah Sadiq (true dawn) se pehle (sehri ke waqt) dono miya biwi ka ek dosre se alag hona zaroori hai. Agar suraj nikalne ke baad (roze ki halat mein) humbistari (intercourse) ki gayi to roza toot jayega.

· Kaffara: Agar kisi ne jan-boojh kar roze ki halat mein humbistari ki, to us par sirf qaza hi nahi, balki Kaffara (bohat bada kaffara) wajib hota hai, jo ke 2 mahine ke lagataar roze ya 60 miskeenon ko khana khilana hai .

· Ulama ki Naseehat: Isi liye bahut se Ulama (jaise Sheikh Muhammad Saleh Al-Munajjid) naseehat karte hain ke agar naye shadi shuda miya biwi se apne aap par qabu na rahne ka andesha ho to behtar ye hai ke nikah Ramzan ke baad (Shawwal mein) karein, taake is bhari ghalti se bacha ja sake .

4. Walima (Shadi ki Dawat)

Shaadi ke baad Walima (dawat) dena sunnat hai. Walima aap nikah ke baad kabhi bhi de sakte hain. Kuch log Ramzan ki biwi raaton mein Walima karte hain aur iftaar aur raat ke khanay ka intezaam karte hain, ye bhi jaayaz hai.

Nateeja (Conclusion)

Mukhtasir yake Ramzan mein nikah karna Jaayaz, Durust aur Mustahsan hai. Albatta, dono fariqain (couple) ko apne rozo'n ki pabandi ka khaas khayal rakhna hoga ke kahin roza toot na jaye. Is liye behtareen ye hai ke agar andesha ho to nikah Ramzan ke baad tak ke liye multawi (delay) kar diya jaye.

Aap ne apni zindagi mein jo josh-o-jazba dekha hai (Rozay, Namaz, Taraweeh, Quran, Kaam), Allah Ta'ala aap ko is mahine mein naye rishton ki bhi khushi ata farmaye aur aap ki zindagi mein barkat de. Ameen.